Filial people always inspire everything to achieve success

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My father-in-law has two sons, and my husband is his youngest son.When my husband and I were in love, my mother-in-law died of illness.According to our custom, if a relative at home passed away, we could not hold wedding banquets back then.So although my husband and I got a marriage certificate the winter of the year when our mother-in-law passed away, we did not hold a banquet and planned to hold a wedding on the second National Day.

The following summer, my father-in-law was hospitalized after falling ill.My husband asked me to take leave and come back to take care of my father-in-law. I said that I had my brother and sister-in-law at home, so I didn’t have to go back.My husband said, "Sister-in-law didn't go to see my dad. Come back, please help me take care of me. I'm too busy at work."I said I've finished my annual leave this year.My husband said, “Then you quit."I have my brother and sister-in-law at home, why do I ask my daughter-in-law, who is not in the family, to resign and go home to take care of her?My husband was vague again. Although I was reluctant, I finally resigned and went home to take care of my father-in-law.

When I arrived at the hospital, I learned that my brother didn’t care much about my father-in-law, and my sister-in-law didn’t care at all.The relatives all called, and my sister-in-law had just appeared in the hospital once, stood for a while and left.As soon as I arrived at the hospital, I thought that my father-in-law had no daughter and my brother and sister-in-law didn't care. I felt very sad when I looked.My father-in-law couldn't get used to the hospital's pillows, so I went to the supermarket to buy a pillow.Because we haven't had a banquet, I don't live in my husband's house and temporarily live in my husband's dormitory.I set up a stove in the dormitory and prepared the food to my father-in-law.When my father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, we were packing up our things. When we heard my brother call and said something happened to my sister-in-law's house.Her father suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, and she rushed back to her parents' home.When I heard this, I sighed in my heart. My father-in-law was hospitalized and didn't care. Her father was sick and ran back so quickly. The comparison was too obvious.

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The house we live in now is a rough private house my husband bought in 2005, with more than 200 square meters, and paid in installments, and spent 130,000 yuan.At that time, my father-in-law helped him borrow 30,000 yuan from the bank. Later, the father-in-law only paid back 7,000 yuan from the loan, and we paid back the other money ourselves.My mother-in-law's hospitalization and funeral expenses were shared by my father-in-law and my husband, and my brother and sister-in-law didn't pay a penny.However, when I bought this house, my brother and sister-in-law borrowed 10,000 yuan to my husband.

We were going to get married, and when we were renovating the house, my brother and sister-in-law lived at home and didn't care about anything.I took a leave to decorate myself, and it seemed that my sister-in-law was never a part of this family.Three months after my father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, we had a banquet at home. According to local customs, we were officially married.Three months after my newlywed, my husband was transferred from his hometown and was promoted to Henan. I also went back to Wuhan to work.

We lived together for three years, and as long as I was at home, I paid for the living expenses.Usually when I get home, I buy all the rice and oil, but she never buys it.I bought all the daily necessities shared by the house, including things like washing hair and bathing.Her things are kept in the room and never taken out for public use.Once when my father-in-law talked about family affairs, he said, "I see everything at home. I am not old enough to be inseparable from right or wrong.”

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In the third year, I told my father-in-law that it is not a big deal for this family to live in for a long time. I will pay some money to buy a house for my brother and sister-in-law and others and live separately.My father-in-law said that there is so much money.I said no need to be afraid, I can borrow some from my parents.All relatives came out and said, how could that work? In our countryside, the eldest son would not go out.I told my father-in-law that we bought the house by ourselves. After he passed away, the two brothers would have to separate sooner or later, and they would have their own house after all.What's more, the house price only rises, not falls. It's better to buy early than to buy late.

With my matchmaking, my husband and I paid 50,000, my father-in-law paid 20,000, and my brother paid 10,000 yuan himself, totaling 80,000 yuan, and bought the house.The house is a small property, just built, and my husband helped them see the house and negotiated the price.The decoration is also about the husband and father-in-law running around and setting up their new home.After helping them get the house ready, my sister-in-law was unwilling to leave and said that she had half of our house, so why should she only give 50,000 yuan?A few days before moving, my sister-in-law cursed at home, cursing that the child in my belly was stillbirth and would die if she was born.He also told my neighbor that I was a very bad woman and drove my father-in-law and sister-in-law away.

After the house was completed, my father-in-law didn't say anything and asked someone to move all the things of my brother and sister-in-law to the new home.My father-in-law finished moving and called me and said, "I'm leaving, you'll take care of your baby alone at home.Dad is sorry to you. I want to live with you, but your aunt and the others say that your brother and sister-in-law are less capable.I have some retirement wages, so I can subsidize them for their household expenses.”

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In the third year after the separation, my daughter was over two years old, and my father-in-law had a stroke.When I was about to be discharged from the hospital, my father-in-law told me, "I am not good at this time, and I can't move a single foot.I want to go to your place, but I can't count on your brother and sister-in-law."I settled the account without saying a word and took him back.After more than a year of recuperation, my father-in-law returned to normal and it was convenient to walk on both feet.It just so happened that my nephew was about to celebrate his tenth birthday, and my father-in-law returned to his brother and sister-in-law to live, saying that he wanted to celebrate his nephew's birthday.

I only found out afterwards that my father-in-law was renting a house outside.I asked him why, and he said he had a quarrel with my sister-in-law, and her sister-in-law drove him out.I said, “Why don’t you come to me and why do you live outside?"The father-in-law said, "Child, I really feel ashamed of you!When I could move, I helped your brother take the baby and left you alone with a newborn baby.The house your brother and sister-in-law now lives in is also paid by you, and you have never been able to come to our house…” No matter how I persuaded him, he wouldn’t come back.He said he had paid the rent and he could take care of himself now. If he was sick and uncomfortable, he would call him and come and stay for a few days.Later in the past two years, he insisted on this, and we couldn't persuade him.I usually come to play and have a meal and leave. When I am sick, I stay for a few days, and when I am well, I leave.I usually make more dishes that are not easy to break and give him some every few days.There is something delicious, please pick him up and try it.I clean my father-in-law's thick clothes and bed items regularly.He usually lives in a small house he rents, helping to pick up and drop off my nephew from school and tutoring his nephew's homework.

It has been more than two years since I rented the house, and my sister-in-law has never been there.I heard from my father-in-law that when my mother-in-law was alive, my sister-in-law was not good to her.My mother-in-law was in poor health and had four strokes.When my mother-in-law was ill in bed, her sister-in-law called her mother-in-law a paralyzed;After getting better, when walking, I call my mother-in-law a lame man.

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I really don't want others to misunderstand me, thinking that I am praising myself and belittling others.So many things, I don’t want to write them in such detail.I just hope that what happens with it will alert more people.

My brother and sister-in-law have been having a bad time in recent years.The year when my father-in-law was driven away, she was knocked to pieces by a gangster on the street when she got off work in the evening. In the middle of the night, the man wanted to run away.It was my husband and I who found various relationships to coordinate, and finally the person accepted the account.My sister-in-law has been lying on the bed for more than half a year.Later, my nephew, a nine-year-old boy, was only the age of a seven-year-old child. It was a good child, and it was abnormal.I grew taller by taking hormones and spent more than 100,000 yuan, and I was still a little shorter than children of the same age.Last year, my sister-in-law was pregnant with her second child. She was a very good child when she gave birth. She suddenly died two hours after giving birth.My classmate works in our city hospital. I heard that after she was born, Ah’s score was 8 points and weighed 8 and a half pounds. It was a very normal little girl.Two hours later, the child suddenly couldn't do it.They have been in this industry for fifteen or sixteen years, and this situation is really rare.When my classmate talked about this, I suddenly remembered that when she split up, she cursed me that "the child in my belly was stillbirth and had no life." She felt chills in her back!This curse of others is something that should be done to yourself in the end. The consequence is really serious.In September this year, bad luck came again. On the night when I was about to take the judicial examination, my brother was hit by an electric shock from the computer room, his left face was disfigured and his leg was covered with extensive contusion.I did two facial repairs and two other minor surgeries.At that time, the skin grafting was done in Wuhan Third Hospital. The surgeons were all experienced chief physicians, but the first time ended in failure and had to do it again.I spent a lot of money and suffered a lot of pain.If you say that such continuous diseases and disasters are all accidental, will you believe it, dear?

Let’s talk about my home.My husband was transferred from Henan to work across provinces last August, without spending a penny, nor did he use any connection.People who are civil servants may understand how difficult this kind of cross-provincial mobilization is.This year, I didn’t take any path. My husband proposed the regular exam and stayed in the agency.In the entire unit, there is only one who is as lucky as us.My daughter is one month apart from the prescribed admission age and will only be in the first grade next year.An old classmate called and asked, and arranged for my daughter's school number to enroll, and my daughter also went to school smoothly.Many classmates thought I had given her something, but in fact, I was preparing for the judicial examination review at that time. I didn’t even invite her to have a meal or a sip of water.Thinking about this, I always feel that life is full of sunshine in my heart, and I am very grateful to all the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas for their blessings.

Comments:

The same family, the same old man, one gets along like ice and charcoal, and the other treats each other like relatives.Life is like a mirror. In these trivial matters of family matters, it reflects each person's nature, and the nature constantly influences the trajectory of their own destiny, gradually responding to the old truth that good and evil are rewarded.

In the family, if you are calculating, you can always find countless reasons for calculating, and countless grievances and injustice.If you don’t care about it, you can always understand and understand other people’s difficulties and feel the kindness of others.Whether to care or not depends on which angle you think from.Everything revolves around oneself, and all kinds of small things can lead to the continuous accumulation of contradictions;Put your heart in mind everywhere, put yourself in others' shoes, and think about others in everything. Even in the same circle, interpersonal relationships will be much better.Just thinking about yourself, the road will become narrower and narrower, and there will be no place for you to live in between heaven and earth. In severe cases, it will also lead to various psychological and mental problems.It’s said that it was forced by others, but in fact, the road is something you can walk by yourself.People who think about others everywhere will have a wider road, their minds will become wider and their lives will become safer and more happy.

In the family, the unfilial piety towards the elderly because of their conspiracy is like a tree without roots. This tree of life is difficult to flourish. It is often easy to attract people to be despised outside. It is suppressed by leaders in the unit, and in life, natural disasters and man-made disasters are constantly coming, and everything is not satisfactory.Filial people always inspire all things to fulfill, and even ordinary fate can live a smoother life and smoother.